The Things We All Carry
Your trauma is unique but your story is universal. The more we share our stories the more people we help. We all carry something into every call. An airpack, the irons, a hook, a hose line, an aid bag, a radio…..you name it. Each tool is useful and has its’ purpose. It’s what we all carry out of the call I’m concerned about. For the longest time we have shrugged off our traumas….”I just did my job”. The time has come to treat these experiences for what they truly are... thethingsweallcarry.substack.com
Episodes

Tuesday Aug 06, 2024
Tuesday Aug 06, 2024
In a world where traditional treatments often fall short, especially for first responders and veterans facing trauma, the potential of psychedelics offers a promising avenue. During our latest episode of "The Things We All Carry," I had the privilege of speaking with Matt Zemon, an advocate for the therapeutic use of psychedelics. Our conversation, enriched with personal stories and scientific insights, sheds light on the healing powers and history of these substances.
To dive deeper into Matt's insights, check out his book "Psychedelics for Everyone" and the companion journal "Beyond the Trip." His upcoming book, "The Veterans Guide to Psychedelics," promises to be a valuable resource for those who have served our country. For more information, visit mattzemon.com and follow him on social media.
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Thursday Aug 01, 2024
Thursday Aug 01, 2024
Episode 126 is Part 3 with Jim, a retired firefighter from Ohio, who shares his personal journey of dealing with the mental health challenges of the job. Stack discusses the pressing need to rethink retirement systems for first responders to avoid forcing them to choose between their livelihood and mental health. Jim also opens up about undergoing an EEG brain scan that revealed his brain is in a constant state of fight or flight, leading to neurofeedback therapy to retrain his brain. From impactful personal anecdotes to the exploration of innovative therapies, this episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in mental health and the well-being of first responders.
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast
00:22 Introducing Jim from Ohio
00:39 Challenges of Mental Health in First Responders
04:08 Jim's Brain Scan and Fight or Flight Response
05:02 Neurofeedback Therapy Explained
07:12 Jim's Personal Experiences and Reflections
18:48 The Importance of Mental Health Awareness
23:06 Jim's Neurofeedback Journey
31:45 Final Thoughts and Future Plans
32:40 Closing Remarks and Book Recommendations

Wednesday Jul 31, 2024
Wednesday Jul 31, 2024
In this gripping episode of 'The Things We All Carry' podcast, Stack discusses the unique challenges faced by first responders, including the mental health struggles and trauma they experience on the job. Listen to part two of the conversation with Jim from Ohio, where he delves into his own battles with anxiety, burnout, and the difficulties of asking for help. The episode also highlights the importance of teaching resilience and mindfulness at the recruit level to ensure healthier careers across various fields such as firefighting, law enforcement, and nursing. Join the discussion on promoting mental health and reducing exposure to traumatic events in first responder roles.
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast
00:25 Host's Personal Reflections
01:41 Recent Episodes Recap
02:01 Building Resilience in First Responders
03:56 Engaging Conversations and Future Plans
05:21 Introducing Episode 125: Part Two with Jim
05:30 Jim's Journey: Burnout and Seeking Help
07:35 Challenges in the Fire Service
08:52 Jim's Role in Cancer and Behavioral Health
11:11 Struggles with Departmental Support
15:10 Near Miss Suicide and Policy Issues
18:57 Jim's Breakdown and Seeking Treatment
21:28 Center of Excellence Experience
34:35 Reintegration and Disability Process
39:10 Final Reflections and Moving Forward

Thursday Jul 25, 2024
Thursday Jul 25, 2024
In this episode of 'The Things We All Carry,' Stack returns with guests Karen Deppa and Mike Donahue, who discuss their organization, Pilot Light. Pilot Light focuses on building resilience for first responders through the application of positive psychology. The conversation delves into the science behind resilience, coping mechanisms, and the impact of social support. Karen and Mike share personal stories and insights from their combined experience in emergency services, explaining how their program aims to proactively prevent psychological injuries. This episode offers valuable perspectives on strengthening mental well-being and fostering proactive mental health practices within the first responder community. 00:00 Introduction and Apology 01:01 Meet Karen and Mike from Pilot Light 04:31 Karen's Journey to Positive Psychology 07:28 Mike's Fire Service Experience 11:20 Understanding Positive Psychology 18:06 The Three Pillars of Resilience 39:02 The Importance of Social Support 41:14 Personal Stories of Resilience 43:03 Compassion Fatigue and Its Implications 44:51 Challenges in Fire Service Recruitment and Retention 49:02 Teaching Resilience Skills 56:16 Incorporating Resilience into Daily Life 01:02:07 Final Thoughts and Personal Reflections This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thethingsweallcarry.substack.com

Wednesday Jul 24, 2024
Wednesday Jul 24, 2024
Episode 123: Overcoming Traumas with Firefighter Author Jim Burneka Join us on the latest episode of 'The Things We All Carry' podcast. In episode 123, Stack discusses the importance of self-care amidst chaotic times, emphasizing mindfulness, exercise, proper nutrition, and mental health support. This week's guest is retired firefighter and author Jim Burneka, who shares his journey in the fire service in Dayton, Ohio, the impact of budget cuts, and his approach to handling trauma. Hear about Jim's personal experiences, including the poignant inspiration behind his book 'Overcoming Tuesday.' Learn how proactive mental health care can benefit first responders and how acknowledging vulnerability can lead to resilience. Don't miss this insightful and candid conversation aimed at helping those on the front lines cope better and thrive. 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast 00:41 Current Events and Self-Care 02:14 The Importance of Preemptive Mental Health Care 04:11 Challenges Faced by Firefighters 07:16 Guest Introduction: Jim Berneka 10:40 Jim's Cruise Experience 13:31 Memories of the Challenger Disaster 15:02 Musical Connections and Personal Reflections 18:38 Book Giveaway Announcement 18:56 Childhood Memories and Family Background 20:08 Father's Career and Struggles 21:44 Impact of Father's Absence 25:16 Moving Out and Starting a Career 28:01 Firefighting Career Beginnings 28:40 Challenges in Dayton Fire Department 33:29 Dealing with Trauma and Memories 37:52 First Dose of Reality in Firefighting 43:42 Coping with Trauma and Humor This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thethingsweallcarry.substack.com

Wednesday Jul 17, 2024
Wednesday Jul 17, 2024
Welcome back to The Things We All Carry podcast! In episode 122, join us for an inspiring conversation with Rob Garnett, the Managing Director of One More Wave and former Navy SEAL. This episode delves into Rob's personal journey—from his extensive military career to his impactful work in supporting disabled veterans through surf therapy. Learn about the mission and values of One More Wave, an organization that provides custom surfing solutions and a strong support community to enhance the mental and physical well-being of veterans. Through touching stories and a deep dive into Rob's life, this episode underscores the importance of connection, community, and the healing power of the ocean. Don't miss out on this uplifting and informative episode! 00:00 Introduction to The Things We All Carry Podcast 00:24 Host's Personal Update and Montana Trip 03:27 Reflections on Human Connection and Mental Health 06:20 Introduction to Rob Garnett and One More Wave 07:40 Rob Garnett's Background and Early Life 12:26 Joining the Navy and Becoming a SEAL 17:59 Life as a Navy SEAL and Post-9/11 Deployments 20:21 Challenges of Balancing Military and Family Life 22:12 Injury, Recovery, and Transition to Civilian Life 24:06 Founding One More Wave and Its Mission 29:16 Reducing Veteran Suicide Through Surfing 29:48 Adaptive Sports and Team USA 30:59 Getting Started with One More Wave 33:10 Success Stories and Community Impact 36:46 Volunteering and Community Involvement 39:10 Funding and Future Goals 47:01 Personal Reflections and Broader Impact 51:51 Concluding Thoughts and Final Messages This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thethingsweallcarry.substack.com

Tuesday Jul 09, 2024
Tuesday Jul 09, 2024
In this episode of 'The Things We All Carry,' we continue our insightful conversation with Alex from Emergency Resilience. Join us as we delve into Alex's personal and professional experiences with ketamine, discussing its potential benefits for first responders, veterans, and active-duty military. We explore the importance of mental health, the use of alternative therapies like psychedelics, and how these can help in processing trauma. Alex shares invaluable insights into the practicalities and therapeutic effects of ketamine, including the importance of the 72-hour period post-treatment, and the need for a supportive community. Don't miss Alex's recommendations on how to integrate these therapies into a holistic approach to mental health.00:00 Introduction to the Podcast00:26 Personal Reflections and Ketamine Discussion02:00 The Importance of Feeling Emotions03:18 Challenges in Mental Health05:08 Episode 121 with Alex: Ketamine Insights06:58 Ketamine's Therapeutic Process09:43 Practical Considerations for Ketamine Therapy18:57 Legal and Ethical Aspects of Ketamine23:19 Future of Ketamine Therapy29:52 Women's Ketamine Retreat36:09 Final Thoughts and Recommendations This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thethingsweallcarry.substack.com

Tuesday Jul 02, 2024
Tuesday Jul 02, 2024
Welcome to Episode 120 of "The Things We All Carry". This week we delve into a thought-provoking conversation with Alex, also known as Emergency Resilience on Instagram and TikTok. Alex brings a wealth of experience as a paramedic and continuing education coordinator, but our discussion goes beyond her professional roles. We explore her personal journey with ketamine, discussing what it entails, who it may be suitable for, and what to expect along the way.Join us as we uncover the nuances of ketamine therapy, addressing common questions and misconceptions. Whether you're curious about starting your own journey or simply intrigued by the topic, this episode offers valuable insights. Alex's expertise and personal insights make this conversation both enlightening and engaging. Tune in and discover whether ketamine therapy might be right for you.Your feedback and input are invaluable as I continue to fine-tune the show to better serve you, the listener. Whether you prefer shorter or longer episodes, biweekly or weekly releases, I'm eager to hear your thoughts and preferences.Your engagement drives the direction of the show, and I'm committed to delivering content that resonates with you and brings positivity to your life. So please, don't hesitate to reach out and share your feedback. Together, let's shape the future of "The Things We All Carry" and continue spreading light and inspiration. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thethingsweallcarry.substack.com

Wednesday May 15, 2024
Wednesday May 15, 2024
Welcome to Episode 119 of "The Things We All Carry." Today marks the continuation of our conversation with Eric, a seasoned firefighter, former paramedic, and emerging standup comedian. As I mentioned last week, Eric's journey spans nearly 25 years in the firefighting profession, alongside 17 years of marriage and the joys of fatherhood to a teenage daughter.Through his comedic endeavors, Eric has found a unique way to navigate life's challenges, transforming personal experiences into jokes and stories that resonate with audiences. In this second part of our conversation, Eric shares further insights into his journey, exploring the power of humor in processing adversity and finding light in the darkest moments.As we delve deeper into Eric's story, I encourage you to listen with an open mind and heart. Your feedback and input are invaluable as I continue to fine-tune the show to better serve you, the listener. Whether you prefer shorter or longer episodes, biweekly or weekly releases, I'm eager to hear your thoughts and preferences.Your engagement drives the direction of the show, and I'm committed to delivering content that resonates with you and brings positivity to your life. So please, don't hesitate to reach out and share your feedback. Together, let's shape the future of "The Things We All Carry" and continue spreading light and inspiration.Thank you for being part of this journey, and enjoy Episode 119 with Eric. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thethingsweallcarry.substack.com

Wednesday May 08, 2024
Wednesday May 08, 2024
Welcome to Episode 118 of "The Things We All Carry." Today, I'm excited to introduce Eric from central Florida. With nearly 25 years in the firefighting profession, Eric's journey has been marked by dedication and resilience. A former paramedic, he's been married for 17 years and is a proud father to a teenage daughter. However, amidst the challenges of the job, Eric found solace in humor.Transforming his experiences into comedic material, Eric pursued a side gig as a standup comedian. From hosting shows to performing at open mics and paid gigs, he's embraced comedy as a way to navigate life's darker moments and connect with others.In this episode, we explore Eric's journey from firefighter to comedian, delving into the complexities of finding light in the midst of darkness. With his unique perspective and sharp wit, Eric shares insights that are both humorous and thought-provoking.Stay tuned for Part Two of Eric's story next week, and in the meantime, don't hesitate to share your thoughts and reflections. Reach out to me at stack@thethingsweallcarry.com or connect on Instagram at @thethingsweallcarry. Let's continue this journey together, and remember to get outside and Do Something For Yourself. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thethingsweallcarry.substack.com

The Things We All Carry
Your trauma is unique but your story is universal. The more we share our stories the more people we help. We all carry something into every call. An airpack, the irons, a hook, a hose line, an aid bag, a radio…..you name it. Each tool is useful and has its’ purpose. It’s what we all carry out of the call I’m concerned about. For the longest time we have shrugged off our traumas….”I just did my job”. The time has come to treat these experiences for what they truly are...








